Split mortgage by income (UK) — a fair way to share costs

If one person earns more, a strict 50/50 split can feel unfair (or simply unsustainable). A proportional split uses take‑home pay to decide who pays what, so both people keep a more similar “leftover” each month.

Last updated: 2025-12-17
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Methodology
Use the calculator with a typical proportional scenario
Opens the main calculator with UK‑style defaults and a proportional split, so you can swap in your numbers.
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What “split by income” means

A proportional split is simple: add both take‑home incomes together, then each person pays the same proportion of shared monthly costs as their share of income. If you bring home 70% of the household income, you cover 70% of the shared costs (mortgage + bills you treat as shared).

This is not advice — it’s a budgeting method that makes the trade‑offs explicit. You can still choose 50/50 or a custom split (like 66/33) if that better reflects your situation (deposit differences, childcare, etc.).

Step‑by‑step method

  1. Estimate your monthly mortgage payment from the loan amount, rate, and term.
  2. Add shared monthly costs (council tax, utilities, insurance, a maintenance buffer, and optionally groceries).
  3. Split the total shared cost using proportional / 50‑50 / custom.
  4. Check “leftover each” and stress tests (+1%, +2% and one‑income).

Worked examples (with real numbers)

These examples use the same calculation engine as the main calculator. Click “Open this scenario” to see the full breakdown and tweak inputs.

Example 1: big income gap, same home goals
Incomes: A £3,800 / B £1,600 · Home £350,000 · Deposit 10%
Total shared cost: £2,506 / month (including groceries)
Proportional split
A £1,763 · B £742
50 / 50
A £1,253 · B £1,253
Selected mode: proportional · Leftovers: A £2,037 / B £858
Example 2: closer incomes (50/50 may be fine)
Incomes: A £2,900 / B £2,500 · Home £425,000 · Deposit 15%
Total shared cost: £2,887 / month (including groceries)
Proportional split
A £1,550 · B £1,336
50 / 50
A £1,443 · B £1,443
Selected mode: proportional · Leftovers: A £1,350 / B £1,164
Example 3: you want a buffer (custom 66/33)
Incomes: A £4,200 / B £2,600 · Home £500,000 · Deposit £80,000
Total shared cost: £3,361 / month (including groceries)
Proportional split
A £2,076 · B £1,285
50 / 50
A £1,681 · B £1,681
Selected mode: custom · Leftovers: A £1,981 / B £1,457

FAQ

Is proportional always “fair”?
It’s a common default because it balances leftovers, but it may not fit if one person paid most of the deposit, you’re repaying different debts, or you want a temporary arrangement (e.g. parental leave).
Should we split mortgage and bills differently?
Many couples do. For example: mortgage proportional, bills 50/50 — or vice‑versa. The key is to agree what you treat as shared, then check the leftovers and resilience tests.
What if one income drops?
Use the one‑income stress test. If neither person could cover the shared cost temporarily, consider lowering the target house price or building a larger emergency fund.
Does this include Stamp Duty?
Stamp Duty is a purchase cost, not monthly — but it affects affordability. See the Stamp Duty guide for couples.

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When a fixed split makes sense (and how to validate it).
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